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Organization: Participatory Development Initiatives
Field of Work - social justice/human rights
Year project started (or projected start date) (yyyy) - 2004
If Field of Work is “other” please define in 1-2 words below - Gender Justice
Project URL: http://www.freewebs.com/ygdp
What is the primary problem your venture is trying to address and how are you addressing it (or planning to address it)? - I m from Khuzdar district in Balochistan, Pakistan. My community is deeply immersed in tribal traditions and customs. In this deeply conservative community, the lives of women and young people are severely constrained. Child marriage, wata sata prevention from getting higher education and having no access to essential services are the key issues affecting my community. Honour killings, though illegal, are a cultural reality.
There is severe discrimination on the basis of gender which starts even from the birth of the child. The birth of a boy is celebrate with gunfire and distributing sweets and food while the birth of girl is usually considered as shame and there is also tradition of hitting a father with shoes seven times if his wife gives birth to a girl. This discrimination becomes rampant throughout the life of the women. The girls who are forced to stay in houses and weir veils are rarely sent for education. Girls are marriage off without their will through exchange marriages and selling the girls into marriage. However, the worst kind of the discrimination and human rights violation in the community is the tradition of "Siahkari" (honor killing) under which the women are killed on the petty doubt of her love affair with any man. Each year hundreds of women are killed in those cases and the tribal Jirga also justifies those killings in the name of honor. My Initiative is working on empowerment of indigenous women, mobilizing them towards a better and equal life. Project Description - Describe your project in one sentence: Youth and Gender Development Program (YGDP) is a step towards mobilizing young people both men and women, to empower them towards making positive change in the community and to put an end to the act of Honor Killing.
Unique and different - Describe what makes your idea unique and different: Through the Youth and Gender Development Program, I have been using four strategies to involve and empower young people in my community.
# Capacity building # Awareness raising # Skill Development # Peer to Peer Learning I believe that using cricket, theater and open spaces of discussion is a great way to involving young people who cave in and are eager to meet and share. Involving youth can never be possible with out using an informal environment, which has been a lot of help for my initiative. YGDP uses different means of inspiring young people and involving them in making change. Cricket tournaments of the whole district in the logo of “Aurat Baraber Hay” (women are equal) took place in which more then 93 teams from all around Khuzdar took part and which continued for about two months. Street theaters on various issues are organized which gather attention of tribal people and are believed for changing perspectives. The literacy centers as sewing centre, computer centre, language centre are open for all of the young man and women to come and learn, which is a first ever time in Khuzdar, and for the girls. Project plan - What is your project plan for the next 6 months? For the upcoming six to seven months, YGDP is planning to run the WAKE UP! campaign against honor killing, Officially launched on 1st January 2008 as an online campaign.
The online campaign has consisted of recruiting members from around the world, sending reports, press releases, open discussions, and sending petitions. The membership of online WAKE UP campaign is now more then 2000 people from around the globe. However we at YGDP have been seeking funds to practically launch the campaign as there is a greater need to do advocacy programs in the tribal areas of Pakistan to involve indigenous youth in change process. The project includes awareness raising and mass mobilization of young people and local communities of tribal area of Khuzdar against honor killing, capacitating youth to take positive action against the crime. Partnerships - What are some of your most successful partnerships and how have you created them? I as the Founder of YGDP m an action Partner in Oxfam Internationals three year Program, Oxfam International Youth Partnership (OIYP) 2007-1010.
YGDP have became a partner with the Global Youth Action Network, who provides resources and opportunities for us in our work. Recently with the partnership with Disney Minnie Grants and Youth Service America YGDP has been supported to celebrate youth service day in Khuzdar which was a great success in which the president of Press Club of Khuzdar and the Director of FM Radio Khuzdar came to participate and promised their support in our further initiatives. Impact - Provide one sentence describing your impact/intended impact. 40 % of male and female in the very conservative tribal community of Khuzdar are mobilized, sensitized and aware about their rights and are able to say no to the customs that enforce child marriages, wata sata, honor killing, dowry, selling of women, keeping women from education and basic facilities.
Effectiveness - How many people has your project served to date? Exactly who benefits from your innovation? Project is tend to reach out to the population of 1 lack in Khuzdar, giving much emphasis on females directly and indirectly.
The total of the directly benefited men and women are about 800 who have taken courses, participated in trainings, seminars, and capacity building activities.
Obstacles - What are some of the foreseeable obstacles to maximizing your impact? For me the most difficult was to oppose my own tribe’s policies and laws. To say no to the life which was I part of and to try to change what my elders thought. I have been accused of challenging tribal customs.
The tribal traditions which have made the female part of my community modest are the other big problem for me, as many times I have been left out of having female support as they think of it a sin to claim their rights or act against crimes like honor killing. Finance details - If known, provide information on your finances and organization:
• Money raised and/or in-kind donations (donated space and/or materials) • Number of people on your team and their roles • Number of partners: Financial Support: Self Funding: 400 USD in Kind donations: office space (PDI) Creative funding - Please describe creative ways that you have acquired funding and other resources? -we ran a "book-request" campaign to make our library!
-we wrote to organizations to invite one or two members in each training they conduct, it helped a lot! -we fund raised for resources like renting speakers and printers. Other non finance needs - What non-financial resources/services do you need in order to help sustain your project? we need skill development courses like:
-Report Writing YGDP has been able to get less publicity yet, we need more ways to reach out to the outer world to speak about the issues in our community. Motivation - What was the motivation or defining moment that led you to create this project? Tell us the story. Coming From a community where conservative laws and principals exist and are in power was one of my motivations for change. The environment where women and girls have no equal rights and are discarded of any decision making about their life was unbearable for me, it is inhuman to kill women over personal dispute, exchange women, sale them and restrict them of any Sexual and Reproductive health rights.
I escaped the horrifying laws and did my studies in Karachi, I got every single opportunity to step further making my approach towards a brilliant success. But indeed the truth was the “freedom” which had every way of influencing me to work for those people who are less fortunate, who though having every right are left behind when it comes to decision making for their life and who look forward to traditions and customs to decide their fates. There are lots of young people, especially women who truly need to be advocated for there rights, and I felt it was my human responsibility to do what ever I can to bring positive change. My own success and education were the true inspiration in my life, I wanted all the girls to be as fortunate as me and to have the same equal rights as men. And that is what drived me to Found the Initiative I call YGDP. Awards - Please describe any awards or recognition you have received (either personal or for your team)? I m a change maker in the Regional campaign against honor killing called WE CAN end Honor Killing
I m one of the Action Partners of Oxfam Australia's three year program, Oxfam International Youth Partnership (OIYP) My Initiative got the Disney Award to celebrate Youth Service Day in Khuzdar, Balochistan. I m one of the 20 members of UN Youth Advisory Panel that gives suggestions and monitors UN programs for youth in Pakistan. I m one of the 20, 2008 Youth Action Net Fellows to receive Social entrepreneur Award in Washington DC this November! What is your age? - 19
Contact Information:
Khalida Brohi
Founder Participatory Development Initiatives (Non Governmental Organization) khalidabrohi_traditional@yahoo.com Flat: B-6, Second Floor, Baloch Centre, Upper Gizri, Clifton, Karachi, Pakistan Pakistan Tel: +92 021 5463512 Fax: +92 021 5362353 Website: www.pdi.org.pk Discussions about this entry
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hey khalida,
this is julu n im a member of Make A Difference.I just want u to kn otht ur work is well appreciated.Whoever won or lost , we are all winners working towards a common cause.And i hope tht it remains tht way!Good luck wid ur work....
affly ,
julu
hey khalida,
this is julu n im a member of Make A Difference.I just want u to kn otht ur work is well appreciated.Whoever won or lost , we are all winners working towards a common cause.And i hope tht it remains tht way!Good luck wid ur work....
affly ,
julu
hey khalida,
this is julu n im a member of Make A Difference.I just want u to kn otht ur work is well appreciated.Whoever won or lost , we are all winners working towards a common cause.And i hope tht it remains tht way!Good luck wid ur work....
affly ,
julu
Thank you so much Ganga!
Hi
I want to awake the nations again and i want oppertunity of a partry
i want to know about your ob oportunities.please send me some informition and its procesess.ok thans
You're really a changemaker and good luck !
Dear Friends,
I just cant thank you much for the kind words and support of your, m really touched.I believe with such support like you we can bring the change we have envisioned for, there is an end to honor killing, its the belief and its the truth!
My Kindest Regards,
Khalida Brohi
Thanks khalida..
Support Khalida, she is doing a great job with the campaign agaist honor killing...she is really trying to touch people and make a change.
Hey Khalida,
Was awed by your story.. It is always a very big, and often dangerous step, to challenge established norms.. But our world wouldn't have been what it is today if people had chose NOT to speak out..
So, great job.. And good luck for the competition..
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Jithin J Krishnan
Read through your entry and i must say its really inspiring and brave for you to do what you do. You have made huge progress already and i hope you'll achieve what you have set out to do. Do let me know if you require any support from our end, we'll always be glad :)
All the best :)
Hi Khalida,
Nice to see that at least somebody is thinking and working for Pakistan.
All the best for final competition.
Hi
Mam
Good project.
Just work upon its " Economic Viability".
Have a web site to sell your embroidery work.
Contact with " Kacha Khadona" sorry if i misspelled it
Its a project between Pakistan and Germany.
just search it and it would be on the web.
Contact mobilink for their " Apna PCO Programme".
If you are in Karachi try to link up with any BPO for
Online Data Entry Project.
Thanks
i pretty appreciate your project but since im not from pakistan, i dont know how seriously the girls are discriminated and as for the honor killing, why pakistan doesnt even have a single LAW to abandon that terrible behavior or "cultural custom"?? i think its so weird! is pakistan a country which lacks the most basic law to protect its citizens from being killed without grounded reasons?
and also, im wondering, can your project really save the girls and eradicate gender discrimination utterly? i doubt.. probably your organization can only teach them some basic skills and make them feel better temporarily. but is your project really SUSTAINABLE? do you think you can really defeat the weird cultural customs and traditions that have been existing in your country for thousands of years? i dont think so..
anyways, it looks like a good project but you should really think more practically.
Hay Yushirr,
Thank you so much for raising some important points. First of all I would like to clear out the fact that Honor Killing isn't just happening in Pakistan, its a crime happening in any other parts of the world but with different names. like in India its called "Sati".
you see there are certain negative aspects of a tradition which can be called barbaric or terrible behaviors and are present in spite of world getting so modern, its just the same case with female genital mutilation.
Any way coming to the law on Honor killing in Pakistan, well there was a time when due to the killings being in rage there wasn't any such punishment for it, however the government recently launched the Hudood Ordinance and according to the law of Qisas and Diyat, a man that kills the women is going to be jailed considering it a crime, BUT if any of the family members in womens family forgives the killer, he can be released with not much punishments.
the truth that the killer is always the father, brother, husband or the cousin lets the killers get away with the crime as there is always someone forgiving them. This is indeed a stupid fact but is true.
as for my initiative, I must say that challenging customs is one of the hardest movements of any one, I cant just stand up and say to my own elders to stop the customs which have been running from centuries. I want to start slow to have a sustainable impact.
I m empowering the YOUTH of my community specially the girls to stand up and take action against the rules that have been snatching away not only their rights but their lives, what more sustainability can I get then the energetic young leaders I m building?
Furthermore I m living on hope and struggle, and do believe that change isn't far.
hope this answers you,
Hay Friends,
I have finally posted my entry! hope its fine enough.
I don't know but I guess there is a mistake in the age bar, I m actually 19.
Please do ask anything that you might want to discuss or something that not making any sense, would love to clear out things!
Smiles
Khalida Brohi